High School Confidential April 27, 2008

I had high expectations for the new WE-TV show called High School Confidential. I saw the commercial and i figured it would be a great show but after watching 1 hour of it, I realized it was nothing like what i thought it would be. One false move was the fact that the show originally came on at 10 at night…That’s not late but for a show that its core demographic is teens, the last show i would want to see at 10 would be High schoolconfidential.They should have made it a prime time show that came on at either 8 or 9. The second thing i did not like was how the show was made. I thought it would be a weekly episode of them coping with there life starting in grade 9 and working up to grade 12 . Instead they choose 2 or 3 people to focus in on and they talk about there struggles from grades 9-12. It becomes more of a biographical show and less of a show that has reality. not saying that this show isn’t realistic, because some of the things they talk about helps other people cope with their lives, i just figured they would show more of the high school life and less of the person talking about there high school life. Lastly my issue with this show is the lack of diversity. There is diversity amongthe family types and the social cliques but with race there is none.( they have one African American). With the exception of the show taking place in Kansas…which may play a big part….i feel that they could have been a bit more diverse then preppy vs nerd vs single parent vs traditional vs religious vs non religious. All though this show is not what i expected it to be, i feel that they did a good job with shedding light on how teenagers are thinking and coping with life in high school. It is relate-able, but they could have executed it better.

                                                                Just my opinion.

Why turn a blind eye to polygamy??? April 18, 2008

If you have been keeping up with the news, there is alot of  coverage on the polygamist ranch in Texas over 500 women and children were taken off the ranch because of a 16 year old girl who called the police saying how she had been abused and how girls as young as 14 and 15 were being forced into marriage.This caused alarm across the country because once again we are hearing abuse within the polygamist community. Almost everyone has heard about Warren Jeffs. A polygamist leader who was charged with two counts with rape as an accomplice. In February of this year he has issued a guilty plea in Arizona, due to the accusations of arranged marriages with young girls and older men.

In my opinion why does the united states allow this to happen. Now i am not saying all Polygamist are prone to rape and forced marriages but a large amount of cases prove otherwise. Polygamy would be found under religion so based on that, the government can only go but so far to intervene. Only in cases where people are getting hurt such as the Jeff Warrens case or the new ranch in Texas can the law intervene. I feel through that in a religion that break rules such as multiple marriages,underage marriages and rape, why do we allow it? Yes i understand freedom of religion, but in a religion that can be compared to a cult…why allow it? There are stories of people who have broken free of there polygamist ways and are shunned by family and friends because they no longer want to live that way of life. There are stories of incest and rape, and forced marriages. There is a story of a girl was 16 and forced to marry a 65 year old man! This is ridiculous. People wonder why they are told to hide their faces when people who are non polygamist see them. That is because they are hiding their shame, there hopelessness. Though certain polygamy compounds are old fashioned, meaning they wear the home made clothing, with the bonnets almost very similar to the Amish. On Oprah i saw a modern day polygamist  family who wore the same clothes any average American would wear. They lived in a gated community ( of course) and their children wore no bonnets and they went to school with other non polygamy children. Now i am not giving them a gold star because they live a more modern way of life but they are less old fashioned.

My last thoughts on this is that i think polygamist should not be allowed. Polygamy in every other meaning then religion is illegal so why allow it? Especially when you take into account the children who have been  abused or shunned. The people who have no way out for fear of being shunned. For people who don’t even know what else life has to offer other then living a simple polygamist life. I feel this shouldn’t be legal. So i guess just like the KKK is legal because of freedom of speech, is guess polygamy will continue to be legal because of freedom of religion….what a country we live in.

~Attending a College Fair~ April 14, 2008

I went to a college fair just yesterday and there were so many people who looked lost among the crowd. Maybe i was one of them but i learned a lot based on my experience.

My first tip for going to a college fair is GET THERE EARLY.I went to the National college fair in NY, it was from 12:00 pm to 4:00 pm. I figured well, since it will be till 4 i guess ill get there about 1:30….Big mistake. GET THERE EARLY! If the time for your college fair is 12 get there at 11. Its not something people think about often but if you stop and think about all the millions of kids who are planning on attending college, then you can understand why i am saying get there early . on the website for the national college fair it said estimated attendees 9,000. Well there had to be at least 15,000. It was so many people that the line went way around the convention center into the streets! Now i am not saying all college fairs are like this, but in a major cities like NY or Chicago or LA, expect alot of people.

My next tip is to BE PREPARED.

 When i say be prepared i mean know these 3 major things. What colleges your interested in, what location you want your college to be in and  what majors you want to take. These things will help you navigate through the crowds. There is nothing wrong with wandering around and checking out different colleges just for the sake of it, but if you know those 3 things it will definitely keep you sane. Like i said earlier college fairs are crowded so if you know what your looking for, you wont get caught up.

College Fair Tip #3 : HAVE A LIST OF QUESTIONS YOU WANT TO ASK

This is something that i should have done because you find that you know what your going to say until you get amidst the chaos and everyone is on top of everyone trying to talk at the same time…you get lost within the crowds. So have a list ready. When you get to booth don’t be afraid to ask as many questions as you want because it is very likely that the people standing at the booth with you want to ask the same thing.

Tip #4: HAVE LABELS READY

I found this out yesterday also. With the large amount of kids wanting to request info from the colleges, most of the time the reps will run out of cards. But usually if you carry labels they will accept them. There were about 2 colleges that i was unable to obtain info from because they ran out of cards. So  have a label ready with you name, address, phone number, email, high school name, high school grade and the majors your interested in.

Lastly DON’T GET LOST AMONGST THE CHAOS!

Most people get frustrated because of the amount of people and the lack of manners at a college fair, but it is what it is. Take a deep breath and realize that these people are here to do the same thing as you. If you find yourself at a booth that is popular and it is a crowded, don’t bombard everyone to get to the front, just wait your turn. If you cant find your school of choice, use a map. Most college fairs will give you a map of the fair itself, which believe me it does help you navigate around the masses.

These tips are definetly helpful for anyone who is looking forward to attending a college fair. I hope it helps

Hillary lies about her trip to Bosnia…no surprise there! March 27, 2008

 If you have been following the road to the white house Hillary Clinton has recently been criticized about her comment regarding her trip to Bosnia in March 1996. Hillary claims that while she was on the plane they were entering evasively and there were gun shots and she said and i quote ” We were basically told to run to our  cars!”. Now i don’t know why she would make up something like that knowing that people have footage of her in Bosnia, getting off the plane and being greeted friendly  by a masses of people and media and they even have footage of her smiling and talking to a little Bosnian girl. So where is she getting this story from? I recently saw a story on the news where a woman reporter who happen to be with Hillary on the same trip said that Hillary must have been on a different trip because their stay at Bosnia was nothing at all like the way she explained. Now in my opinion for her to make up such an elaborate and detailed story about her trip sounds to me like she is a habitual liar. She doesn’t think about why she says things, she says it because she thinks that people will be receptive to it.

Now about her daughter, Chelsea. I don’t blame her for not disagreeing with her mother. She just agreed with Hillary in everything she said about Bosnia. But if you think about it, why wouldn’t she? She isn’t going to ruin her mothers chance at becoming president. God forbid if she did say, well maybe my mom has some facts off. If she ever dared to say that then the news headlines would be HILLARY CLINTON, CAUGHT IN A LIE BY HER DAUGHTER! Which wouldn’t be good on her part. That is why i feel when i heard Chelsea was not going to answer media questions, i applauded her. When you expose yourself to the media they are technically allowed to ask any question they want regardless of the morality of the question. So i feel that Chelsea should just stay home and do whatever she does because her, and Bill aren’t helping Hillary They are hurting her. Hillary needs to stop Lying, and bullying Obama if she even wants a smidgen of a vote she needs to stop. Many of the  people  who were planning on Voting for Hillary are now deciding not too, because if Hillary lies about something that is obviously false, what else does she lie about? Everything that she is promising the country now is in question. What if we elect her thinking she will do so much and its nothing but broken promises.

I figured this would be the case with Hillary since day one. She likes to play dirty politics and now it is backfiring. The more she talks and  insults and lies the less votes she gets. She is already behind in the delegates and in the popular. With her  acting like this i don’t know what she has in her play book to win. Plus her criticizing Obama about his crazy pastor. That same pastor that she is saying Obama should have turned his back on, was the one who Her Husband called to the white-house when  he was having the Monica Lewinsky scandal, so she needs to stop criticizing, lying and being a dirty politician.

but based on everything Clinton has done i doubt she wont stop her dirty politician tactics

GO OBAMA!!!!!

America’s Next Top Plus Sized Model? March 13, 2008

 

I remember back in the day where when i use to watch Americas next top model i would be a super fan. I would watch it every week. Go on the net and check out the web exclusives and cheered when my favorite won at the end of the show. But now it seems like the show has lost its charm. It seems monotonous and unnecessary. With all the other shows on that claim to grant super stardom trough a modeling contract like, The Janice Dickinson Modeling Agency on Oxygen, or Make me a Supermodel on Bravo or the other countless model shows, Americas Next Top Model in my opinion is falling short. Even the prizes they win are slowly becoming less valuable. Like before the winners would get on the cover of Elle magazine which is a very fashion forward mag. but now they get on the cover of Seventeen. Seventeen mag is somewhat fashion forward too, but not as much as Elle. They win some other things but really i could care less. Another thing that bothers me about America’s Next top model is that Tyra on her talk show boast about beautiful curvy women should be represented as beautiful and shown in magazines…but on top model she only can afford to put 2 plus sized women, and on top of that they aren’t even that plus sized. They should be called average while the rest look anorexic. She always talks about how a women you should love their body and how it would be easier if sometimes you would see an occasional curve on someone either on the runways or in magazines. With her saying that you would assume that she would at least pave the way by having more then 2 plus sized models on her modeling show! Or she could have a show called America’s Next Top Plus sized model. I bet it would get more ratings then the current top model because to be very honest i am sick and tired or seeing razor thin girls with sunken in faces that look like they haven’t eaten anything but a grape in the past month. I mean it wouldn’t hurt to see and average size women as a model on the runway. Tyra has the opportunity to open up so many doors, but she doesn’t. Unless she just isn’t fighting hard enough for it. Even when there were more curvy models on the show, they always had issues with body image while on the show because they curvy women were always outnumbered and they always had issues with clothing not fitting them properly or just self esteem issues when the client ( who by the way only books skinny models) doesnt like the look of a curvy movel. So with that in mind i figure maybe it would be better to have a show where only the curvy women are shown as beautiful for a change. I take pride in Monique the comedian who has a annual show called Monique’s Phat Chance, which is basically pageant for plus sized women. I applaud her because she is trying to make a change, unlike TYRA! I respect tyra with all she does, she has done the SO WHAT! movement and she has done other things that help women, teens, and girls feel better about themselves, but she in my opinion isn’t doing enough. Having a plus sized top model on her talk show compete for a Ad in some unknown magazine does not compare to what the other models get on top model, so why not have a top model for plus size women too??? I feel that with as much as tyra does for women she has the ability to make a plus size top model show. Now i don’t know whether or not she wants to or not or whether the producers or creators wont allow her, but with her name, skills and talent i am sure she can make a change in the vision of beauty in society and make Americas Next top Plus sized Model possible!!!!!!

American Idol does not equal instant fame! February 14, 2008

 

I have been watching American idol since day one, i mean literally day 1 season 1.Every year you see the select few who come on the show saying i want to be the next idol and that if they are eliminated they dont know what they will do with their lives. Over the years you have seen many people become celebrities due to their new idol fame, and some people who become 15 minute stars. But what about those who go on and expect instant fame and never achieve it. What about all those people who you say that person will definitely make it after leaving idol. Well i have seen it time after time. For instance, Taylor hicks, the winner of American idol 2 seasons ago. He couldn’t sing and some people said he had good stage presence. I didn’t think that, but he had a good loyal fan base that voted for him thousands of times to keep him out of elimination and ultimately making him and idol. You would think with such a fan base that you would be famous and drive a Bentley! No that was not the case. If anyone has noticed, Taylor hicks couldn’t sing and he wasn’t marketable. At 20 something years old he had gray hair he wasn’t in shape and he wasn’t attractive, so guess what he was unsuccessful. Yes people looks do mean things ,but also he didn’t make a hit record at all. His album never made it to  the billboard charts or if  he did make it, he was way on the bottom of the list. Recently Taylor, Katharine Mcphee and Ruben Studdard all got dumped from their record label, proving that just because you were on idol doesn’t mean you will become successful singers.

Katharine Mcphee everyone assumed she would be doing something with her life after idol. She was pretty, and she could hold a note. I saw her on a couple of commercials but after her 15 minutes of fame were over and her songs werent making hits on the radio and her cd’s werent selling, she became a has been. Katherine who….oh that idol girl. Many other idol contestants have all been the victims of idols 15 minutes of fame but some dont even have that much shine. Some contestants just move on with their lives after idol is over. Although idol may not always make instant fame for all, their are the small few who do make it. Jennifer hudson was a hit star of DreamGirls, outshining Beyonce. She was winning oscars, grammys, and many other countless awards for her outstanding performances. She has yet to break a cd out but hey she’s  enjoying her acting. Idol opens up serious oppurtunities that would never be available unless they had that exposure from the show. Carrie underwood is now a Country hit maker who won a country award and is doing well on the charts and radio, i dont know if her fame will last but for now she is doing well. Lakisha from last season will now be acting and singing in The Color Purple on broadway taking Fantasia’s spot for awhile. American idol has definetly given exposure and oppurtunities to people that otherwords would never have chances like these, but like i said before dont expect fame! Fame is something that does not fall into your lap regaurdless if you win a hit singing competition, you have to work for that fame. Look at beyonce, mariah carey and all those other people. They didnt have a show to put them on top. They worked for it. I feel you will never get anywhere if you dont work for it.

                              ~American idol does not equal instant fame~

Amy Winehouse Wins Grammy for Best New Artist! February 12, 2008

 

Wow so Amy winehouse a woman who is famous for singing her hit song “rehab” wins best new artist. This after showing the world her crazy drug habit.  They showed her on TV doing drugs while already high on prescription drugs. She was banned in the United states because of this. So she performed in Europe for the Grammys VIA satalite, but she won Best new artist? What does this say to young girls who look up to her, which alot of girls…young girls and teens look up to her. She openly uses, abuses drugs and yet she is awarded for her actions. This makes no type of sense. but you know what? In my opinion i think this can go either way. She will continue to do abuse because now she realizes she can do what she wants and still have a prosperous career. Or She will get her act together and say hey! Look what i accomplished, maybe i should stop abusin’. Nah i dont think she will do that. After her little “break” from Rehab to perform and after winning i am definetly sure she had a nice little party that involved getting wasted. So basically what does this say about society?

I was listening to the Wendy Williams show…which by the way i love, she is on channel 107.5 in ny or you can google wendy williams and listen to her online…… and her and her co host charlamagne were talking about how famous athletes get busted for doing steroids and ultimately their career is over, caput…end of story. I think it should kinda apply to the entertainment business too.

 I mean besides the fact that kids look up to these bad examples, this is still a human being that is ruining their life. Someone who is out of control. And basically by awarding her we are saying its okay Amy you won a grammy!! It don’t matter that your a druggy!!!! That’s basically what we are saying when we congratulate stars. Besides the ultimate amount of celebs going in and out of rehab like a fad, i think we need to get some serious help for these people….instead of filming and mocking them. We don’t need another Ana Nicole smith.

Lastly i also have to say besides Amy’s drug use i have to say that her album was rated highly and was a change of what you usually hear on the radio so i give her props for that but I’m sorry Amy you gotta get yourself back on track so you can get back to black!….get it back to black her album…dry humor….okay I’m really done with this blog. 

:)CYA

The Worst Super Bowl Half Time show ever! February 4, 2008

I was watching super bowl 42 and I’m not really into the football to be completely honest. All i know is that the patriots and the giants are playing. So the main thing i look forward to on super bowl day is the half time show. I was so pumped up to see Mary J Blige which i heard was due to perform….but guess what? Some guy named Tom Petty was singing. First off i had no idea who is and 2nd why on earth would they give him 3 songs? He is a nobody. I feel that ever since the whole Janet Jackson exposure incident, the half time show has really began to play it safe with who they book to perform. I understand that they might not want Lil Kim performing because she might wear something ” inappropriate”, but why not Chris Brown or Neyo Or Carrie Underwood or Britney….oh never mind   i forgot shes in The Psych Ward. But like i was saying this half time show sucked!

::::::This Just in::::: I just checked my sources and i was mistaken. Mary J Blige was to perform with Maroon 5 at the before show Concert. But sources said Paula Abdul was suppose to perform at the half time show and tom petty was suppose to be the main person singing (why?)…..This is very confusing i feel that they truly need some better people. I mean back in the day people use to love the half time show but now it’s like why bother having it and making a big deal if you aren’t going to have anyone worth watching for 15 minutes….but hey maybe somebody out there actually Like Tom Petty….i know it wasn’t me

GO GIANTSS!!!!!!

Barack for President! January 28, 2008

Times are changing and Barack Obama is that change. A well deserved change that took too long to happen but hey…what can you say? Barack Obama has so far won the Nevada Caucus and the South Carolina primaries. He is doing much better then i thought he would do, being a black man running for presidency. And people are  wasting their time talking about race is not an  issue…be serious race is still an issue in the minds of some/many people. Personally i don’t like Barack Obama because he is black . I like him because he stands for most of the things i stand for, he is sincere in his speaking and he seems like he can do a good job running the country regardless of his so called lack of experience. Hillary on the other hand i feel that she at times appears to be cut throat vicious. She seems like she will do anything to win and doesn’t care how she wins. Also i wish that some people would stop saying I’m voting for Hillary because of Bill. I have heard grown people say this, and it makes me wonder why they would say such a idiotic thing. If you are voting for someone because of their husband then you are wasting your time. Bill’s success in the white house has nothing to do with Hillary’s, and it shouldn’t even be compared.
Barack has a fresh, new approach to things and i think people should recognize that. Also the media try little things such as having breaking news headlines such as Baracks Middle name is Hussein! Or, saying things like he went to a school in the middle east…a school that supposedly taught terrorism, or saying idiotic things like, is he black enough? What kind of questions are these. Just because  he didn’t get the black vote right away means that he isn’t black enough…? That makes no sense. I guess they want him to be an African American stereotype ( which i wont name a steorotype because that just perpetuates them even more). Though some people cant get past the color of his skin alot of people have, and i will give them credit. Recently Caroline Kennedy decided to endorse Barack and also others have endorsed him clearly not because of his race but because of what he stands for. So props to them!

Lastly i just want to say that because of his race i also fear for his life. yes in the year 2008 i fear for his life because if he does become president he will need l an army of security surrounding him and his family at all times. The KKK is definitely on the rise and i am scared because of that. They are so ignorant but what can you say to ignorant people who claim to be Christians…….anyway…I fear for his life because also the “imperial wizard of the Klan”…..(what a joke)……. claims that if he does become president something will be done about that. Hinting that he will most likely be killed. So yeah that is why having a black president will be a well deserved change but is America ready…i don’t know….i know i am.

Are you ready?

Ms. America is Racist! January 27, 2008

I was watching Miss America 2008 and was appalled, literally appalled. I was angered to see there were only 4 black women competing out of 52 people! Not to mention no hispanic, asian, native american. Majority caucasion. This is a serious issue. Are they stating that being beautiful in american means you have to be a size 2 and have blonde hair and blue eyes….well it seems like it. So then for the semi finalist they put 2 black women in, but guess what after the swimsuit contest they BOTH got eliminated. They get eliminated even after doing extremely well…. So guess what??? The only remaining people were white. I think there is definetly something wrong with that picture. Why no hispanics, no black, no asians. There are many races in the united states. What ever happened to the melting pot, of cultures that was suppose to represent all of the various religions and cultures that america represents. But yet when we have a show called miss american, a girl that is suppose to represent america ends up 95% of the time being white. This seems very racist to me. Also it makes me sick to my stomach when also every person on that stage is a size 0-4. With the exception of Miss Utah who was the only girl to sport a full piece bathing suit ( her body would not be considered fat, but healthy looking). Guess what. Miss Utah was eliminated. So I guess Miss America also doesnt want anyone over a size 4 to win either. It really makes me sick that in the year 2008 little asian,black,hispanic girls cant watch miss america and see anyone who looks like them. Or at least someone win that looks like them. It seems very unfair. But hey what do you expect when a contest has been out for over 20 years. A contest that has been out when there were no black people at all, it wasnt even heard of to have a black person in a miss america contest. so i guess i should be happy to see 4 people. I think not. We as americans need to get over the color of our skin and realize it is what is underneath that means the most…especially in the year 2008